{"id":1704,"date":"2024-09-26T07:00:00","date_gmt":"2024-09-26T06:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/digitalfirstgp.com\/base-pcn\/?p=1704"},"modified":"2024-09-20T11:40:33","modified_gmt":"2024-09-20T10:40:33","slug":"babies-cry-you-can-cope-icon-week-2024","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/digitalfirstgp.com\/base-pcn\/2024\/09\/26\/babies-cry-you-can-cope-icon-week-2024\/","title":{"rendered":"Babies Cry, You Can Cope: ICON Week 2024"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Babies Cry, You Can Cope: ICON Week 2024<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><strong>Warning: This article discusses the dangers and consequences of shaking babies.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>It&#8217;s normal for babies to cry. It&#8217;s their only way to ask for help if they&#8217;re in pain, hungry or have been startled. Some babies cry for no obvious reason. That&#8217;s normal, too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Whatever the cause, a baby crying can be upsetting and frustrating for parents. Stress and tiredness can make those feelings worse and harder to get over.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you are struggling, getting help is the right thing for you and your baby.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/iconcope.org\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/iconcope.org\">ICON is a charity<\/a> that can offer support and advice to parents. For <a href=\"https:\/\/iconcope.org\/news\/20240530-icon-week-2024\/\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/iconcope.org\/news\/20240530-icon-week-2024\/\">ICON week 2024<\/a>, here are the four steps to remember.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"has-text-align-center has-white-color has-text-color has-background wp-block-heading\" style=\"background-color:#0072ce\"><strong>Before we begin: Remember, if you are worried that your baby is unwell, <u><a href=\"digitalfirstgp.combase-pcn\/about\/opening-times-contact-details\/\" style=\"color: white\">contact us<\/a><\/u> or call NHS 111.<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Infant crying is normal<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Crying is a baby&#8217;s only way to communicate. It is designed to be upsetting for parents to hear. It&#8217;s nature&#8217;s way of making sure they get our attention.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>While every baby is different, there is a &#8216;normal&#8217; curve of how much they might cry, and when.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At two weeks, they may start to cry more frequently and for longer. This can peak at around 8 weeks.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>After that, babies tend to cry less and less each week.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"100%\" height=\"520\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/lxhhxZ2UnnQ\" title=\"ICON- Peaks of Infant Crying\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen=\"\"><\/iframe>\n\n\n\n<p>It&#8217;s important to check for any physical reason they might be crying. Reflux, intolerance to cows milk, another type of pain or discomfort.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But there might not be a reason, and comforting them might not stop it either. That&#8217;s normal, too, but it&#8217;s still upsetting for you. And your distress can add to theirs, and the other way round.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/iconcope.org\/advice-for\/parents\/infant-crying-is-normal\/\">ICONs tip:<\/a> Pause at the Door, and check the three Cs:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Can I be careful?&nbsp;<\/li><li>Am I calm?&nbsp;<\/li><li>Will I be caring?<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>A quick check helps you know if you&#8217;re ok to go in, or if taking a few minutes would be a good idea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Comforting Methods Can Help<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>We&#8217;ve mentioned why babies might cry. Hunger, pain, needing a fresh nappy. After checking these, you can try some <a href=\"https:\/\/iconcope.org\/advice-for\/parents\/comforting-methods-can-help\/\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/iconcope.org\/advice-for\/parents\/comforting-methods-can-help\/\">calming techniques<\/a>:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"vimeo-player\" src=\"https:\/\/player.vimeo.com\/video\/316785801?h=d2675f9bc8\" width=\"100%\" height=\"520\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"\"><\/iframe>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Talk calmly to your baby. Hold them against you and stroke them gently on the back.<\/li><li>Hum or sing to them. A constant, gentle sound can be soothing,<\/li><li>Hold them close. Try skin-to-skin contact to help them feel close to you.<\/li><li>Go outside. The rocking motion of a pram or being carried can help.<\/li><li>Sucking can relieve crying. Offering the breast or a dummy can help.<\/li><li>A warm bath.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Remember, what worked last time might not work today. That&#8217;s ok. Stay calm, and the phase will pass.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"has-text-align-center has-white-color has-text-color has-background wp-block-heading\" style=\"background-color:#0072ce\"><strong>If you are worried that your baby is unwell, contact your GP or call NHS 111.<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">It\u2019s OK to walk away<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>As long as your baby is safe, it&#8217;s ok to walk away for a few minutes. If the crying is getting to you, this can be a good way to calm yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Think of ways to calm yourself before checking back on them in a few minutes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"vimeo-player\" src=\"https:\/\/player.vimeo.com\/video\/316784468?h=51279c06f0\" width=\"100%\" height=\"520\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"\"><\/iframe>\n\n\n\n<p>Parents and caregivers need to look after themselves. It can help you cope with a stressful, sleep-deprived time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>ICON suggest making a <a href=\"https:\/\/iconcope.org\/download\/crying-plan\/?wpdmdl=582&amp;refresh=66dab7e22b7ed1725609954\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/iconcope.org\/download\/crying-plan\/?wpdmdl=582&amp;refresh=66dab7e22b7ed1725609954\">personal plan for coping with crying<\/a>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jot down some calming methods to try, who to call for help, and ideas for taking a few minutes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-buttons is-content-justification-center is-layout-flex wp-container-core-buttons-is-layout-16018d1d wp-block-buttons-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-button\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link has-white-color has-text-color has-background\" href=\"https:\/\/iconcope.org\/download\/crying-plan\/?wpdmdl=582&amp;refresh=66dab7e22b7ed1725609954\" style=\"background-color:#0072ce\">Coping with Crying: My Personal ICON Plan<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Never, ever shake a baby<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Not being able to get a baby to stop crying is a trigger for shaking a baby.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>This is highly dangerous. Shaking a baby can lead to brain damage or death.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Watch Ellis&#8217; story. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><strong>Warning: this video contains a mother&#8217;s first-hand account of what happened to her son after he was shaken<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"100%\" height=\"520\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/aqCbREcduMA\" title=\"Ellis final\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen=\"\"><\/iframe>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"has-text-align-center has-white-color has-text-color has-background wp-block-heading\" style=\"background-color:#0072ce\"><strong>If you are worried that your baby is unwell, contact your GP or call NHS 111.<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Support Networks and Useful Information<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lullabytrust.org.uk\/safer-sleep-advice\/\">Safer sleep advice (The Lullaby Trust)<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lullabytrust.org.uk\/safer-sleep-advice\/swaddling-slings\/\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/www.lullabytrust.org.uk\/safer-sleep-advice\/swaddling-slings\/\">Swaddling your baby (The Lullaby Trust)<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/thedadpad.co.uk\/\">Essential guides for new dad (Dad Pad)<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.nhs.uk\/conditions\/baby\/caring-for-a-newborn\/soothing-a-crying-baby\/\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/www.nhs.uk\/conditions\/baby\/caring-for-a-newborn\/soothing-a-crying-baby\/\">Soothing a crying baby (NHS.uk)<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.cry-sis.org.uk\/\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/www.cry-sis.org.uk\/\">Support for crying and sleepless babies (Cry-sis)<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.fatherhoodinstitute.org\/2021\/becoming-dad\/\">Becoming a Dad (Fatherhood Insitute)<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/aimh.uk\/get-to-know-your-baby\/\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/aimh.uk\/get-to-know-your-baby\/\">Getting to know your baby (AIHM UK)<\/a><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Babies Cry, You Can Cope: ICON Week 2024 Warning: This article discusses the dangers and consequences of shaking babies. It&#8217;s normal for babies to cry. It&#8217;s their only way to ask for help if they&#8217;re in pain, hungry or have been startled. Some babies cry for no obvious reason. That&#8217;s normal, too. Whatever the cause, &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/digitalfirstgp.com\/base-pcn\/2024\/09\/26\/babies-cry-you-can-cope-icon-week-2024\/\">Continued<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1706,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[291,292,293],"class_list":["post-1704","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-news","tag-babies","tag-crying","tag-parenthood"],"acf":[],"publishpress_future_action":{"enabled":false,"date":"2026-04-28 20:36:00","action":"change-status","newStatus":"draft","terms":[],"taxonomy":"category","extraData":[]},"publishpress_future_workflow_manual_trigger":{"enabledWorkflows":[]},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/digitalfirstgp.com\/base-pcn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1704","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/digitalfirstgp.com\/base-pcn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/digitalfirstgp.com\/base-pcn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/digitalfirstgp.com\/base-pcn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/digitalfirstgp.com\/base-pcn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1704"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/digitalfirstgp.com\/base-pcn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1704\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1731,"href":"https:\/\/digitalfirstgp.com\/base-pcn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1704\/revisions\/1731"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/digitalfirstgp.com\/base-pcn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1706"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/digitalfirstgp.com\/base-pcn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1704"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/digitalfirstgp.com\/base-pcn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1704"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/digitalfirstgp.com\/base-pcn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1704"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}